So today, I had a patient, a real gem of a guy. I was fetching him from the ward and escorting him to the operating room, which in nursing translates to “taking a casual stroll while pushing a bed and dodging random IV poles.” Now, I could tell he was a talker—the type who’d see a two-minute walk as the perfect time to lay some life-altering wisdom on you. And let me tell you, he did not disappoint.
As we’re en route, he starts with, “You know, there are only two things in life that matter…” Immediately, my interest is piqued because, hey, who doesn’t want the secrets of the universe distilled in less than ten steps down a hallway? So, I lean in, giving him my best “I’m totally ready for enlightenment” look.
He clears his throat and says, “Number one: God loves us all.” I nod, thinking, “Solid start.” Then he hits me with, “And number two: Get over it!” Yes, folks. Get over it. That’s it. That’s the life-changing wisdom right there.
Now, I don’t know what I was expecting—maybe some hidden tips on reaching inner peace or advice on how to fold a fitted sheet—but this was so much better. Because honestly, isn’t that just chef’s kiss advice? Things don’t go your way? Get over it. Need to let go of that petty grudge against the person who cut in line? Get over it. Spilled your coffee first thing in the morning? Get. Over. It.
I mean, research actually backs this up. According to studies, people who can “move on” and practice emotional regulation tend to have lower stress levels, fewer mood swings, and better health overall. And the best part? It’s totally free! You don’t need to buy crystals or go on a soul-searching retreat in Bali—just get over it.
So here’s to my wise patient who, while on the way to his operation, gifted me with a motto that’s so simple and oddly liberating. Next time life hands me lemons, I’m going to squeeze those bad boys, dump them in water, and move on. Because really, God loves us all... and the rest? Just get over it.
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True ❤️🙂